Dear Daddy, Happy Father's Day

Mary and Stan: I know you'll get this to Dad...

Happy Father's Day to one of the most unconventional dad I knew!

Unconventional isn't a bad thing at all, so let's get that straight. As a matter of fact, it's all relevant to what society has to say. Dad, thanks for teaching the old ways of working for what you get. Even if we had the money, you taught us to earn the prize! When we didn't really have the money, we never knew it. you worked three times harder to get us those special tickets to the National Theater. Thank for making me buy my own dance uniforms and shoes to be on the team, for not running out and buying those designer jeans, and not letting us wear make up at 12 just because everyone else is doing it.

You didn't think I noticed, but I use to see tears swell up in your eyes when you had to reprimand us. Especially, by the time you go to the third one. Your love for mom is sooo endearing. You always placed her first in our home, and God encourages a couple to stay centered to keep the foundation of the household. Teaching us to work hard, you also taught us to play hard when the work was done. We all eventually learned how to balance to two in our own lives.

I remember the day we became friends and not just my dad. You found out I changed my grade on my report card and saw my heart. I expected to be grounded and you said sorry instead. Then you talked to me and said, "I just want you to do your best that you can do and not be ashamed." You taught me that lying was showing that a person is ashamed of something.

I look in the mirror today and I can sleep at night knowing I am a good human being, that carries compassion, loves the humor in life, finds ways to find the joy in the moment, laugh at lessons in life, and is honest with those I love because of you. These are the qualities you gave me.

Love,
June